February 28, 2009

Kidnapped child found 6 years later in Texas

Mother in custody after hiding daughter from father for 6 years

It is every divorced parents' nightmare. Your ex-spouse takes your child and does not come back. In 2001, Kostas Lazarides was awarded sole physical custody of his daughter in what was described as a bitter divorce. The two moved from Tennessee to Montana, but returned three years later for the summer. While in Tennessee, Kostas agreed Hope Lazarides, the mother, could keep their daughter during that summer until school started. That was the last time Kostas saw his daughter until he was reunited with her this week after 6 years of separation. The daughter was found in Dallas, Texas living with her mother. According to the article, Hope Lazarides is now facing charges of kidnapping and custodial interference in Tennessee.

February 23, 2009

When pre-martial property becomes marital property

Home bought prior to marriage becomes marital property

iStock_000007948044XSmall.jpgThe Mississippi Court of Appeals recently handed down a decision in a Copiah County, Mississippi divorce case. In this case, the husband lived in a home in the Hazlehurst, Mississippi area prior to marrying his wife. After they married, the couple lived in that house before selling it to buy a new home. They used the proceeds from the sale of the home to buy the new home. When the parties divorced, the husband argued the proceeds from the sale of the pre-marital home were not marital property as he owned it prior to marriage and it was purchased with pre-marital funds. The chancellor disagreed holding that the home was marital property given it was used by the family during his marriage. The Court of Appeals agreed.

The Court noted the well-settled rule that "non-marital assets may lose their characterization as such if the party commingles the asset with marital property or uses them for familial benefit." Even though the husband owned the first house prior to his marriage, "the property gained status as a marital assert upon its prolonged use as their family home." This concept is sometimes termed the "family use" doctrine.

The husband's second argument was that the wife did not contribute anything to the house given she stayed at home. Thus, she should not benefit from the increase in value of the home. Again, the Court disagreed. The wife stayed at home as a homemaker, raising the family, and going to school to further her education. All with the encouragement of her husband. As such, her role as homemaker and mother was sufficient to show a contribution to the equity of the home. "Any contributions or efforts by either party in the marriage, 'whether economic, domestic or otherwise, are of equal value."

This case provides a good analysis of the trying to divide property in a divorce, some of which was acquired prior to the parties' marriage. The Kisselburgh Law Firm represents individuals involved in divorces. If you are contemplating a divorce, contact us online or call us at 601-936-4040 to set up a consultation.

February 19, 2009

Alimony--Using Craigslist to get out of paying?

Man offers to pay for someone to marry ex-wife

Imagine sitting at your computer and you are browsing the classified ads on Craiglist and suddenly you come across the following ad:

Nice well taken care of ex-wife. Mid 40's. Pretty and loyal. Never smoked and very little drinking. Will make someone a good companion (I know).... Will pay 10K to the man or woman who marries her in a way that stops me from having to pay her alimony.

There's the hitch. The man, trying to end his alimony payments to his ex-wife, is offering to pay a potential suitor to marry his ex-wife. Not being totally callous, the guy actually had some "terms and conditions" for this transaction.

  • 1. This transaction offer only valid if she is not aware of it.

  • 2. Must treat her good, no abuse tolerated by me.

  • 3. This offer is null and void if it is determined to be illegal in any way -- I am not a lawyer.

  • 4. The end result must be that I am no longer liable to her for alimony and you make best effort to be good to her.

  • 5. This ad is not in any way intended to demean my ex-wife. She is a nice person and is a fine catch for anyone.

OOPS. I think the cat's out of the bag on condition #1. With news of the post hitting newspapers, she or some friends might find out. He might also have a problem with condition #3. At least he did not want to "demean" his ex-wife in any way--what a guy.

In Mississippi, if you are paying alimony to your ex, don't use this tactic to end the alimony. Not only will it fall flat in front of the judge, but you can be assured your ex will not find the humor in being marketed on Craigslist.

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February 17, 2009

Good Morning America looking for couples contemplating divorce

Good Morning America wants couples who are contemplating divorce

If you and your spouse are contemplating divorce, but want try to save your marriage, then Good Morning America is looking for you to contact them. Couples chosen will undergo an intense counseling session to save their marriage.

As I have said before, our firm does not promote divorce and hope that all couples will attempt to go through counseling to save their marriage. If you are one of those couples, you can also check out the Mississippi Marriage Help website which provides a list of counselors who specialize in marriage counseling.

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February 13, 2009

Mississippi Court of Appeals says no decrease in alimony for Meridian, Mississippi man

Mississippi man seeks reduction in alimony, Court says no.

In a Lauderdale County, Mississippi case decided this week by the Mississippi Court of Appeals, the wife was originally awarded $3,250 a month in alimony. Seven years later the trial court reduced the alimony to $2,900 a month. Seven years later, the husband filed a complaint seeking to reduce or terminate the alimony. After a trial on the matter, the chancellor denied his request to modify the alimony. The husband appealed.

The issue on appeal was whether the parties' financial situations had changed such that a modification of the alimony was warranted. The Court first noted the general rule regarding modification of alimony.

"Alimony awards by the court or by an agreement incorporated into the decree of the court, if not lump sum, have long been subject to modification upon proof of material change in circumstances subsequent to the entry of the decree because of public policy."
However, the material change "must not be one that is anticipated by the parties at the time of the original decree." If there has been a material change in circumstances, then the Court must apply the Armstrong factors. In applying those factors, the Court stated, "the chancellor must compare the relative positions of the parties at the time of the request for modification in relation to their positions at the time of the divorce decree."

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February 7, 2009

Facebook entry leads to divorce

Divorce--Facebook style?

In a new twist to the traditional "Dear John" letter, a woman discovered her husband wanted a divorce from his entry in his Facebook account. The woman's friend, according to the article, was looking at the husband's Facebook and saw a message which said he had "ended his marriage." One problem--he had not told his wife. The wife said even after she heard about the message, her husband did not say anything. He is now living with his mother.

It appears the technological age has added a new twist to the divorce arena. First we had the wife ranting on YouTube about how her prenuptial agreement was unfair while complaining of her husband's shortcomings to the public via the Internet airwaves and now this husband posting his divorce intentions for everyone to read before telling his wife he wanted a divorce. What's next??

Word of advice. If you are divorcing your spouse, limit your public comments. Keep off the internet and don't make any videos--neither which will play well before the judge in court.

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