June 24, 2008

Starting over after divorce

Man looks to eBay to start over following divorce

According to a recent article, an Australian man is attempting to start fresh following his divorce. He put all of his worldly possessions, plus more, up for sale on eBay. The 44-year-old is selling his car, home, jet ski, friends, hobbies, and job. Although offers have reached at least $1.7 million, no word on whether those bids are valid. This gives a whole new meaning to starting over following a divorce.

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June 20, 2008

Judge goes too far in child custody matter

Judge overrules father's discipline of 12-year-old

From across the border comes a story out of Quebec (Canada for those rusty in their geography) where a judge overruled a father who sought to prevent his daughter from going on a school trip. According to the article, a divorced father had custody of his 12-year-old daughter. Dad cut off daughter's internet access after she chatted on a website he blocked. She then used a friend's computer to post "inappropriate pictures of herself" to this website. After Dad found out, he told the daughter she couldn't go on a three-day school trip. Not at all happy with the punishment, daughter moves in with Mom. What does Mom do? She says daughter can go on the trip. One problem--the school required the consent of both parents or a court order. Dad refused to give his consent, so Mom and daughter took their case to court.

In an unbelievable ruling, the Judge sided with the mother and daughter, overruling the father's discipline. The father is appealing the ruling and says he refuses to take his daughter back "because he has no authority over her." This is definitely a case of a judge overstepping the boundaries between parenting and judicial oversight of child custody matters. Hopefully, the appellate court will reverse the decision.

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June 18, 2008

Man pays alimony to ex-wife turned man

Man paying alimony to ex-wife who underwent sex change operation

Here is a bizarre story. A man and woman marry. After a bit of time, the wife starts cutting her hair shorter, gets some tattoos, injects herself with testosterone, voice gets deeper, and she now has to shave her beard. Divorce ensues--there's a big surprise. The husband is ordered to pay alimony. According to the article, the ex-husband finds out after the divorce that his ex-wife underwent a sex change operation and is now a man. The husband sought to terminate alimony payments based upon the sex change, but the court said no. Bizarre story to say the least.

June 12, 2008

Divorce through a child's eyes

Child Custody--a child's perspective

Child custody is a difficult part of divorce. I've listened to a number of divorced parents talk about the problems they have in getting the ex-spouse to abide by the terms of a divorce decree when it comes to child custody. Usually, one parent says the decree says I get them and that is the way it is. However, did the parent stop to consider what was going on in the child's life? While having both parents active in a child's life is good for them, parents also need to realize that sometimes you need to work around those problems for the child's sake.

What follows is a portion of a recently published article entitled, "The Halloween Story: A Lesson for Divorced or Separated Parents. The story goes like this:

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June 5, 2008

Website for divorced women

First Wives World website

For divorced women, or women going through divorce, there is another website for you to share your thoughts, whether it be frustration or jubilation, or seek out answers to those lingering questions. First Wives World says it is a "community for, and by, divorced women." The site offers articles on a litany of subjects from dating styles of divorced women to dealing with children during a divorce.

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