Preparing for Divorce in Mississippi: Step 1 – Hire a Wise Advisor
Step 1 - Hire a Wise Advisor
We live in a DIY (Do It Yourself) society. Many believe they can get divorced on their own. You can probably find some forms on the Internet that will allow you to file your own divorce. In fact, if you have no children, have been married for only a few years, have little or no debts, and you and your spouse agree to the divorce and property settlement, you could probably file the divorce without hiring an attorney. But this does not describe the majority of people contemplating a divorce. For most, you need a wise, experienced lawyer to lead you through the process and protect you from the consequences of divorce. Divorce involves many pitfalls and you will not be able to weather the storm alone.
Look for a lawyer who has experience in family law and courtroom experience. Know your lawyer’s philosophy regarding settling versus litigating cases. You don’t need a lawyer whose attitude is fight at all costs. This type of lawyer costs you hard earned dollars in attorney fees and creates conflict rather than seeks resolution. You also don’t want a lawyer who is unwilling to take your case to trial if needed. You need the lawyer who understands the difference between compromise and capitulation. You need a lawyer who seeks to resolve conflict, but if unable, is willing to take your case before a judge for resolution.
